Give God Time

Relationships are the terrain where faith is most intensely tested. It is easy to love God in an empty room; it's hard to love people in real life. People who irritate you, who disappoint you, who misunderstand you.

Paul gives a wise instruction: "As far as it depends on you, be at peace with all." Notice the two conditions: "if possible" (sometimes it is not) and "as far as it depends on you" (do your part, even if the other does not do theirs).

Giving God time makes you a relationship restorer. His love in you produces patience with difficult people, forgiveness for those who have failed, and grace for those who are imperfect. Not because it's easy, but because His Spirit empowers you.

Is there a damaged relationship in your life? An estranged family member? A friend you don't talk to? A colleague with whom there is tension? Today could be the day to take the first step. You don't have to figure it all out. You just need to reach out.

Reconciliation is not always possible. But doing your part always is.